Monday, November 26, 2007

filipino archetypes

Filipino Archetypes are the Filipino super heroes people have come a crossed and accustomed to over the past few years , having extra ordinary talents and powers. Usually these super heroes have evolved through time or are just the Filipino counter parts of foreign super heroes or people that possess extraordinary powers. It was said that super heroes were invented or followed with the famous people in the bible and the extraordinary things that they've done or accomplished.

maximo oliveros and eating out




Watching Maximo Oliveros and Eating Out , made me a little bit confused as to the meaning of Gay really means, because i got so used to what people stereotypically define gay people, based from their clothing,mannerisms, physical attributes, the typical gay person described by the society. But when i saw these two films i got confused because the definition of a gay person suddenly became a blur to me. In Maximo Oliveros even though he was brought up to be a cross dresser, and got exposed to what his family does, he wasn't influenced by their actions. He fell in love with this police guy he became good friends with, then realized that he will be the one to break his heart, the policeman killed the father and he got heart broken when he knew that the policeman didn't have the same feelings he had for the policeman.
While for eating out, the guy that liked one girl had to act like a gay person just to get the girl eventually, and at the end the girl realized what the guy did for her, he made out and had some weird encounters with this gay person that had a crush on him , until the gay person realized he wasnt really gay, he just did that to get the girl that he likes. All the while the girl thought the guy was really gay but only to find out he did that to get to the girl.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

between errotica and pornography

This is the topic that im not most familiar with, i mean i am aware of pornography because of my guy friends, since i didnt wat to read or watch any porn film or any errotica film for that matter i asked my guy friends to help me on this one :)) since they claim that this is their field of expertise;) haha:))

Errotica- they gave me one example which is kama sutra and a film called American Day dreams
they said that errotica is like a stimulator, and for self pleasure, there is a seduction stage before getting on to the having sex part, there is fore play and more sensual with nice music to go along with the mood and its very subtle. they said the most common films on errotica is when the movie is set to be an imagination of someone, like someone is day dreaming or something, while the scene changes with a ripple effect to the sensual parts until the sex scene is shown and then at the end it is shown that it is just a dream or an imagination of someone. They also said that this is more stimulating and that they prefer errotica over porn films

ON the other hand........

Porn films don't have the foreplay part and it is not sensual it just goes straight to the sex scene, no gentle touches and what have you, they gave an example of porn, the film college fuck fest, it is more hard core and more straight to the action part. no sensual stuff and more "brutal" where there would be scenes that the girl is choked, slapped in the face, peed on, especially on gang bangs wherein there would be like 5 t0 1 ratio. In there point of view they said that porn films are more degrading to women

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

tila tequila


I was watching tv last night, and while I was watching Tyra, the show was devoted for bisexuals and how would you know if you are one, with several guests talking about bisexuality. The most popular as of now is Tila Tequila, a hot petite girl that has her own reality show in MTV called a shot for love featuring of course Tila Tequila, and she is finding her real love between guys and girls in the show fighting to get Tila. It was surprising that she was very open about it, when it comes to her experiences in dating men and women. When she dates men she said that she wants to be treated the way she treats a woman, when it comes to bed she said that she's the submissive type and wants her man to take control in bed, but she still rocks the bed. :)) While dating women, she said she wants the one spoiling the women and making them feel special, opening doors for her, taking her shopping, dont everyhting that she can to make the girl smile. Then again she said there's nothing wrong with that, she loves the feeling and is open to any kind of relationship the most important feeling is making that special someone so hapy and in love;)
Its a good thing that she's out there to explain her feelings and that she gave a head start for all the people experiencing the same thing, she chose to stand for what she believed in and that she was proud to tell everyone her experiences and her life, and that we should give everyone a chance, its a hard thing to be normal and be accepted in society what more for people like her.